Dating is now about “freak matching” for Gen Z. A phrase from Tinashe’s song “Nasty,” asking, “Is somebody gonna match my freak” massively took off on TikTok earlier this year. For the young gens saying it, when someone “matches their freak,” they can embrace their quirks, dark humor, and most niche interests, creating a deeper sense of acceptance in relationships. Now, Plenty of Fish is calling “freak matching” the dating trend for 2025. For young women in particular, this outlook within dating encourages genuine self-acceptance, rather than molding their personalities to fit others’ expectations, which helps move beyond surface-level connections. The trend has woven itself into friendships too, with the best relationships in their life being the ones that “match their freak.” (New York Post)
📊 YPulse data: 74% of 13-39-year-olds agree, “It’s hard to meet a significant other these days
