What The 'Best Books For Girls' Can Teach Us About Bella
- November 18th, 2009
- 4 Comments
Yesterday I tweeted a top ten list of books for girls and young women compiled by arts and culture blog Flavorpill. Really I couldn’t resist. Matilda! The Mixed Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler!? Those books meant so much to me that just seeing their covers literally gave me goosebumps. And judging by the healthy number of retweets, I know I’m not alone. Of course, this isn’t the first (or last) effort to evoke that visceral re-connection, but it’s a pretty stellar selection with an angle we could get behind. From the intro:
Here are our top ten choices of books for girls and young women — we have some overlap with TAOM’s list (because why should girls only read books about girls?) but we’ve also picked out some spectacular novels particularly for the young ladies. Our claim: boys will like them too.
TAOM = The Art of Manliness, the blog that inspired Flavorpill’s Top Ten by posting a pretty fantastic list of 50 great reads for boys and young men (The Phantom Tollbooth! A Wrinkle in Time!) of their own. It’s enough to make me want to raid my current and childhood bookshelves, hanker down for some serious re-reading and spend some quality time with these characters. Can we just talk for a minute about these characters? Both lists favor protagonists after my own heart, but focusing on the “Girls/Young Women” list we see a wide range smart, adventurous, witty types with emotional complexity to boot. Just ripe for the picking of role models… and comparisons with certain contemporary heroines who may not be up to snuff.
Yes, the anti-Bella/Twilight sentiment isn’t exactly hidden here (I believe the phrase “Mormon propaganda” actually gets dropped in the intro) and it seems, with the imminent release of “New Moon” and the mockable wave of heartthrob-centric marketing and merchandising around the film, ‘tis once again the season for Twilight bashing. Truth be told, I haven’t exactly been the series’ greatest supporter. Those who know me have sat through many a session of heated analysis around Bella and her relationship with Edward where I’ve expressed frustration over her lack of self-confidence, the intense codependence and an almost complete lack of ambitions outside of the romantic relationship (college? friends?). Still, I wouldn’t hold Bella up as the antithesis of all those who made the list. The Twi-hards, or whatever you’d like to call devoted Twilight fans, deserve more credit than that.
I’d like to believe, regardless of my personal response, that the female tween and teen readers who embrace the series are able to see those qualities I listed in Bella. I’d hope they would seek them out in order to identify with her and defend themselves (and the character) against arguments and concerns from Twilght dissenters. In that spirit, while reviewing Flavorpill’s list, I started to think about how classics like those (along with contemporary fictional heroines) could actually help young girls exercise those critical capabilities. By comparing and contrasting Bella with the likes of Lyra Belacqua of the “His Dark Materials” trilogy by Phillip Pullman (talk about an epic, ill-fated romance!) or, Winnie Forster from Tuck Everlasting, another young woman facing the choice between the life she knew and immortality, I think parents, librarians or anyone putting a book in girls’ hands would find a much more productive access point to the discussion around feminism, role models, etc. than, say, just saying no to Bella. Ypulse readers?
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I totally agree. While I also have a lack o’ love for Bella and all that the Twilight series pushes in the way of unhealthy relationships, we need to offer more than a simple, “No, don’t be like Bella.” We need to provide a counterpoint to Bella, with real examples (even if in fiction) of ways that girls and women can be strong, decisive, and still pursue relationships and all that entails. I’ve seen a few recommendations of books to be this antithesis to Twilight, but it would be great if there was a list that teachers, librarians, and parents could access somewhere. Does anyone know of such a list?
I am an “un-fan” of all things Twilight as well, but I was very glad that the series got my teenage stepdaughter reading books. She swore up and down that she would read them if she had them, so I purchased the whole set for her birthday, and read them she has. I hear about them all the time and try my hardest to hide my dislike and just praise her for keeping up on her reading. As I hoped, this has opened up her eyes to all the great authors and stories out there, and she has become interested in some other authors as well. I’m just glad she’s reading and the top ten list will give me some suggestions to send her way. Christmas is coming! =)
I have a love-hate relationship with Bella Swan. I think Meyer has a good grip on the average teenage girl’s mindset. I’m a staunch feminist who believes in promoting women and girls’ inner strength. That being said, I also cannot deny that in my teen years and into young adulthood I put great importance on finding the person who would “complete me.” There are few who can. So if you look at the “Twilight” series through those love-sick blinders of youth, it’s not offensive (except for most of “New Moon” when she went on and on about the “hole in her chest” ... but is that any different than how some teens are? Overdramatic and hormonally-challenged?).
My strength as an individual didn’t come out of nowhere. It came from my experiences, good and bad, loving and heart-breaking. Bella is a magnification of that. And Edward is a magnification of the uber-male from a teen girl’s perspective.
I recommend anyone interested in the Bella debate read Margaret Atwood’s short story “Rape Fantasies.” It’s a fascinating commentary.
Matilda was especially one of my favorite books and movies growing up.So empowering!